Losing Identity...

There are times when a person might prefer something different, something you thought you hate… some things you have never thought possible to do…
But those are the things that people don’t expect you to like. They have put you in this mould and they say to themselves, “this is what she is like, this is what she will do… you cannot expect anything more from her… cos that is her… she is never romantic or surprising… she is the same old boring person…”
You one day wake up and find yourself boring and think about changing yourself not for others but for yourself… cos you want to be different… you want to think different… You don’t want ppl to mould you into a figurine and then when you have changed, you realize that ppl don’t accept you for who you are anymore… You know why??? It is because they thought you were something and then you have now turned into something else and that is too much for them to handle… cos now they have to find out once again who you are… what you like and everything… they don’t want change in them and hence don’t accept change in others…
Some may say that when you change you lose your identity. But isn’t your identity supposed to identify you??? When those characters that you think identifies you don’t identify you anymore how can it be your identity… don’t you think it is better for your identity to change than live in a misconception of who you are to the world. Isn’t it better to change yourself to suit you than to change yourself to suit what others have identified you to be???